BLOOMINGTON, Minn. — A heartfelt gesture from a Bloomington family on Thanksgiving reminded others they’re not alone during the holiday season.
It all began with a simple Facebook post that sparked a wave of kindness and connection.
Dan Lovestrand shared an open invitation:
“If anyone is alone on Thanksgiving, I’m cooking a turkey. It’ll just be me, my wife, and our 5-year-old boy. I’m driving to pick up my 86-year-old dad—he’s kind of perpetually grumpy. If you want to join us, let me know. If you want to help cook, even better!”
His wife, Merely Lovestrand, supported the idea wholeheartedly. “I thought it was such an encouraging thing to do,” she said.
What they didn’t anticipate was the overwhelming response.
Hundreds of people reacted to Dan’s post. Some shared stories of personal struggles, loss, and loneliness during the holidays. Dan, too, opened up about his own feelings of grief, particularly after losing his mother eight years ago in November.
“This time of year is hard for my dad and me,” he shared. “I think I made the post because I was feeling a bit of that myself.”
Dan believes the simple act of offering an invitation can make a significant impact. “It gives people a choice. They’re no longer alone because they have to be. That small sense of control can bring relief.”
A Table That Traveled
While no one joined the Lovestrands at their home on Thanksgiving, Dan decided to take his holiday spirit to others. Armed with prepared meals, he visited about 10 individuals who had messaged him.
“Spending a little time with people, even briefly, can reduce suffering,” Dan said, reflecting on the day.
Though the Thanksgiving gathering didn’t happen as planned, Dan is already jokingly planning a Fourth of July celebration for strangers next year, determined to keep spreading joy and connection.
Source: CBS News
